Once In A While

Dear Rinners,

It's been few weeks since the last post. I knew, I lost track.

This end of November till this early December has been a very busy and hard days in my life.. You may say that I overreacted. But, for me, yes, it is.

I used to say to all of you that don't give, never give up, always think positive, always try to find the solution and etc... But to be honest, that's what I want to tell my self too. I learn everything everyday with all of you.

It just sometimes I feel this life is so cruel, so hard. I know, life never easy, and it'd be better if I accept it that way. Oh dear, I hope so much that G knew that I almost through my limit. I see everything as mask. I put a smile and people who know nothing about me, just will think that I'm fine, everyday. Whenever I get through the security post, I'll say hi and give a smile, but nobody know any shit of me.

I try my best to keep my head high, and stand tall. I don't wanna run away, and I don't want to be bad. But why sometimes they keep pushing you and just don't care if you already feel so tired or wanna die? Oh my God.. Am I just say die?

My All Friends,

This is me, in my weakness time. I may lie to everyone here, who can't see my face, but I don't. I want you to know, that I'm just a human too.. So ordinary just like you. Who want to be better, who work hard to become someone, become a person, a better person that we wanna be.. I ain't stop now.. won't give up now..I'm just asking once in a while to write my tears... to say that I'm down.. to know that you always there for me too..

Thank you for read this. I love you..

Khaerin

MISSING YOU

Dear Rinners,

It's been busy month. Lots of works and jobs. Lots of changes. But today I let my fingers come to the keyboard, type the address and share some thought with you. I hope you still enjoy my blog C:

These last few days has been a very colorful day. From tears to laugh.. sadness to happiness.. People come and go.. Separated and Married.. I just reminded again my life has been so blessed when I saw so many poor and hunger outside there.. when this rainy and cold days come, they have nothing to wear or to eat. Or they've been left at nursing home because their family too busy to take care of them. Or the people who have no home to stay.. I still got a roof on my head, a bed under my back and a pillow to sleep. A jacket when I'm cold too..

Dear Rinners,

So many things and times we left everyday. We did things and passed time. Not often we don't remember what we have done just since morning, or early weekend. Some of us have a really busy day, busy life.. and not many of us still have time to build a good relationship, a good communication with family, friends or people. I myself admit that when a day so full of works, when I arrived home, I really just feel like want to have a rest. A time for my self.

But... do you know how many people outside there that really missing you? We may not know what we've done to others or how big we effect our surround environment. But if you do have a good relationship, do good things, kindly chat with neighbour, or just a smile that you throw when you pass the security guard, everyone might feel different about you.

Keep contact with your friends, don't just when you need them...
Keep chit chat with neighbours, don't just when you want to borrow something...
Keep accompany oldster, for they always did that when we little..
Keep your eyes alive, your arms giving hug and warm, your hands to hold and a shoulder to cry on..

People always busy fighting to get a better life and people always missing a friend, a brother, a sister, a someone like YOU.

Now you know, I'm Missing You.. Rinners C:

Love, Care and Share
Khaerin

NEVER GIVE UP

Dear Rinners,

How are you lately? I hope today you are great.

I just had my birthday party with my best friend here. My birthday was yesterday, but just celebrate it today.

Last year has been a great year and I hope this year and next year ahead are gonna be better. I really enjoy my life and I think I learn a lot of things this year. May all the experiences trained me to be more mature, wiser and better on making any decision.

I know we easy to make mistake, but one thing for sure, I'm glad that I've never regret for what I've done. I mean, I like to keep it that way. If I'm wrong, I learn from it, I admit that I'm wrong and I move forward. And I still can make it right. What so shame of making mistake? And sometimes, it even not a mistake. It just we know something better, but it doesn't make the one before is a mistake, right? Do you understand what I'm saying? Well, I hope so :D

So, making mistake is not a big problem for me. I'm saying that we can learn a lot of things from a mistake, or from a failure. The problem is you gonna stop and give it up or are you gonna stand up and fix it. If you never give up and always eager to learn to be better, then there's nothing wrong with it. Just live you life to the absolute fullest! Because a person that always afraid of do or decide something, then he might loose the greatest lesson in it. Every step that we take always have to bring us to a better place. A better place means if it success, then it's good. And if it fail, then we should have something to learn. Not just letting go the priceless lesson, because everything that happen on your life cost you a great price. What is that? It cost you time.

Time can never be turn back. Time always leave you with thousand moments, meanings, lessons. So, every work hard, every success, every failure, cost you a "TIME".

So my dear Rinners,

Wherever you are, whatever you do, please remember this line, "NEVER GIVE UP". Never give up especially upon yourself. If you are really facing a BIG problem, then THINK at least for your own good. Don't worry or matter about what other people thought. Their thought not worth if it just make you down. Think BIG! Think for the BEST of your life! Is that so important things so may let you down??? Why it should let you down! You have another way, another person, another chance, another choice, another decision that will make you proud to be yourself. That you can hold your head high and know that you are WORTH more than that. That you are PRICELESS, that you are SOMEONE. That no matter what happens on you now, YOU WILL PASS THIS EXAM because you are YOU!

Love, Care and Share
Khaerin

IT JUST ABOUT UP AND DOWN

Good morning Rinners,

I got sick since Sunday. I got fever and feel so limp. After that, that bad news come. I just didn't know what to do anymore. Felt like everything loose from my hand, my mind. I just laid down and the tears just shed. I was losing my power.

I couldn't sleep. Honestly, it has been nights I don't have a good night sleep. I don't know why, like there's something in my brain just won't stop. But that night, just fell asleep after tired of shedding tears.

Monday, I called out sick, I ain't go to work. Because yes, it is really sick. I got fever, all my body like drain out, and my stomach was like stressed. I went to doctor in the afternoon. He said dehydrated.

Sometimes things can be very funny. When lucky, happiness comes to you, all the positive comes to you too. And when sick, sadness, bad news, everything, it come along with all the negatives too. It feels like everything try to take you down. Maybe you ever feel this way too.

Well, I'm just saying that I don't give up, and not gonna giving it up. I know it hurts, hurts like just wanna disappear from this world. Trust me, I know pains too. But I ain't gonna do that because of that reason. Someday when I leave, I'll leave because I'm going closer to my happiness.

And when I can't do anything but took a rest on my bed, there's an answer for 1 of my many questions pop up in my mind. Why I ever tried to do some stupid things (maybe still coming in my mind sometimes, but rarely) yet I have known that is bad? The answer is because of what I've ever seen when I was a kid. That experience just can not be erased like if you wrote some mistakes on paper. But who should I blamed on? Well, honestly, I don't wanna blame anyone... really.. but they don't know, or never really know why "we" ever tried to do that thing.

Now I have my G in my heart.. and still there for the rest of my life. I believe that this is just about Up and Down. If it doesn't kill me, it just to make me stronger...

I stand on my own,
Khaerin

HOW ABOUT CARE? GROWING UP?

Good Morning Rinners,

Today we talk about care. Most people must be very happy when knowing that other people are care about them. It is including everybody, whether they young or old, whether they are in a good health or sick. Whether they are rich or poor, in every conditions. Yes, it including if he's a bad guy, or a good guy.

All human beings need to be cared. We live in the same world, and that's why we have to care about other people too. Care about someone doesn't mean we have to take care about his/her health, finance, food, or everything. Care about someone do means make them become independent too. Independent that I'm talking here is preparing them to facing this world. Of course, even an independent woman/man still need others care, but basically, they've grown up.

Caring can be shown in many ways. From the simple one to the complicated one. Have you ever think that your smile in the rainy dawn have warmed up ones poor and cold guy at the corner of the block of your house? Or have you ever think that when you can't finish your meal, or bread, better than throwing in a trash can, and then just share them with the hungry man out there, it simply makes them very happy? Well, I'm not saying we give them only the left over food, it will be better if we intend to give them from the beginning.

Or for the complicated one, I think we have to prepare more attention, spending more times, knowing deeper what their needs, etc.

One person might be called has grown up when they starts to think about other people, care about other people. Cause when you want to take care of other people, you must take care of your own self first. One grown up man not always can take care of other people, but one who can take care of other people, can be considered as a grown up man.

Now, we just need to choose, what to become, what to do. As I said before, caring can be shown in many ways. If you can not do the big things, then try simply things. Because simply things not always mean simple for others. You can be the angel, or you can be the devil. We never know how much our life will be worth if you can not do good things. And remember, some action of caring sometimes need sacrifices, and it will be better when only few people knows. Coz showing off your action just make the good deeds you've planted decrease. Except, you want to invite other people or join you to do a bigger things that you couldn't do alone, and that is for others who need it much.

So now, Let's Care and be Grown Up ^o*
Khaerin

LOOKING FOR SOLUTION

Good Evening Rinners,

I got a name for you who read and enjoy my blog, hope you don't mind.. or you can suggest any names? C:

This evening I wanna talk about how people looking for solution when they get into trouble. We people have so many ways and again, everyone's way is different. I'll give you a hint and you decide which one fits on you.

1. Finding the cause
We often fighting for something that in the end, when you ask what is the problem, then you got confused. Why? Because you don't find the cause. You only fight because of your ego, because don't want to be blamed, because don't wanna be the looser. But what exactly you got when the problem still unsolved, in fact, both of parties, no one win.

Finding the cause makes you think how to break it down and find a way to solve it. Either to look for more information, or just try again with other plans. You may find and choose what the best for each condition.

2. Getting more information
Some of us too lazy to find out more information for the problems they're facing. Some people get used to be served quickly. They want to know the basic point only. They won't dig deeper for they think it just wasting their time. So with the simply information, they think they've found the solution, in fact, that's not always enough. Sometimes, it makes more misunderstanding or mistakes.

3. Don't too quick to judge
We live in a busy world and it affecting our mind. People are expected to solve problem quickly. Some of them just leave it there and others are running away. But not much, who judge something just by the skin or by the cover you say. People nowadays are too easily cheated or bullied. Just with one sentence or a few lines of news, they've thought that all are the fact. After that, they are spit it words too quick or even have not think about it once again. Then the bigger problem comes and they have to fixed it again. Instead of solving problems, they are adding more unnecessary mistakes.

4. Following other's advice
In order to have a better life, we should not ignore a friend suggestion or disregard elders advice. I'm not talking about how old ones already, but the advice from a wise man can't be measured from the age. But experienced and open minded person can learn faster and solve any problem easier without any obstacle. Experiences train people to be better and so they can give a better advice for them who need it and for who haven't passed that situation.

So don't need to feel ashamed for following other's advice, it doesn't make you a looser.

5. Keep on trying and positive thinking
Last but still very important, keep on trying to look for solution in one or another way. Don't forget to keep positive thinking, for it will guide you to get a great success.

Always with love, care and share
Khaerin

JUMP AND REACH YOUR FUTURE

Good Morning Sunshine,

I just got good news and bad news yesterday. Well, whatever it is, I still have to live my life, isn't it?

As I wrote before, all of us has dream. But along the way to achieve our dream and our goal, there must be something we left, sacrifice. Times, for playing, chit chat with friends on cafe for example.

We live in this world to move forward and still, everybody's point of view about moving forward is different. One person think that getting rich is moving forward, but a monk don't think the same way. One person think to be the boss is moving forward, have a big company, but for a librarian or a nerd, they don't need that. Because everyone's dream is different, their goal is different. That's why some people don't understand when a guy, example a football player, practice so hard just to win a competition, but for some other people that is a stupid game while eleven, I'm sorry, 22 guys chasing a round ball.

We live in the same world, but we live a different dream. You can't push someone to be a boss when he/she don't wanna be the boss. But still we need to be open minded. Chasing or focus on our goal, doesn't mean that we have to forget our environment. We are social human.

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The above theory I wrote yesterday.. but I have to stop because I have lot of urgent things to do. Now when I get back, I lost the soul of this topic. But I'm gonna keep write about this topic.

What I wanna say is that if we want to get closer to our goal, to our dream, we must jump and reach out our future. We can not just stand or sit, waiting for some miracle but don't do any effort. If we take everything slowly, then we will be left behind. If we don't wanna lose a chance, then we should be quick.

So dear Readers, Jump and Reach Your "Better" Future!

Khaerin

APPRECIATE SMALL THINGS

Good Day Readers,

Today I found out this topic to write for it is so easily to forget. Yes, we often forget to appreciate small things.

Nowadays, we are common to look busy, no matter you are old, young, rich, poor, everyone looks so busy. Working or making money, either to fulfill other needs, or their own needs. That's why in recent decay, people show no respect to "life".

Many people to busy with their own activity, daily life, too busy digging money. Some parents even looks like have forgotten that they already have a babies, a kid, a children, who need their attention, their love beside their money C:

"But I myself need and deserve a "me time", can't I?"

Hey, that's why I'm saying that you need to appreciate small things, start from yourself. If you, yourself don't feel happy, how can you see this outside world as a great universe? If you can't appreciate the air that you breath, the grass that grows green on your back yard, someday you might be forget that you are alive.

Guys, appreciate small things doesn't mean that make you focus to only small things. It means that if you already be grateful for what you have now, and still have a big dream, you will be highly spirit to get or to do whatever it takes to achieve your bigger dream. Why? Because a man that is happier and grateful with their life, will be success faster than the not one. Because success not always about the money, not always about having the biggest property, or the richest, or the smartest.

A Success Man is the man that can appreciate small things by doing great things, happy and grateful but still have a desire to make others happy too, especially the one they love.

So from now on, if you just realize that you've forgotten to appreciate these small things, just look around and you'll find it. You'll find how beautiful this life could be, only need a minute to turn this world upside down. Just take a minute, walking down the street, go to a park, see so many people, just watch the kiddos playing on the play ground. So full of fun, they enjoy everything. they laugh after they fall, and they get back up right after they fall.

Why are we forget to appreciate this small things? Because we are too busy concern with other small things that don't deserve our attention. So try to remember this, "appreciate only the small things that can make you a Bigger and Happier person. If it don't, then just leave it."

Enjoy your day, Smile and Touch The Sky!

Love, Care and Share
Khaerin

LIFE ALWAYS HARD

Good Evening My Dears,

We all have our hobbies, we interested in different things. Some of us like science, some of us like technology, art, and so many other things in this whole world.

As we already know, we absorb any information from everything around us. From books, TV's, internet, school, family, friend's story, and etc. We learn and practice in the same time. We take everything we can to increase our knowledge, and maybe it's from our hobbies too.

What I'm saying here is simple. Example, I like dance, one of my hobbies is dancing. And so with movies. I like watching movies. And because I like dancing, I like to watch dancing movies. But, when I watch these dancing movies, I'm not only learn how to dance, or the new steps, but I learn another thing from that movie.

This morning, when I cleaning up room, I saw my dance movie collection. Suddenly, I feel like wanna see those movie. After one movie to another movie, I feel like refresh. I feel like there's something I've forgotten, that I've learned before from the movie. An education that taught us that life never been easier when you ready to face it. Life always hard, and that's how it makes us stronger like now, that's why it makes us greater like now.

Just imagine, that if you just sitting there, doing nothing in your life, would it be great like what you've got right now? Would it be more success than right now? No, hell no.. We can be like today because of we fighting everyday, doing something that make us bigger than yesterday. We may barely even don't know what we've been through, but believe me, everyone who never give up on being a better person, they shall be happy now. Because what doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger. And if you learn something new everyday, you may become more expert on what you really like, that you always do everyday. Just like a chef, that always practice in the kitchen, so he can cook and make a delicious food or dessert for us.

We are expected to be ready anytime, to accept that is no easy word if you want to get a great success. We need to sacrifice, we have to fight for all the laziness. To get a beautiful body, a model have to learn how to control what they eat, to maintain their health, they do sports everyday, and to get a great attitude, they learn how to stand tall and how to walk with confidence. Every minute they spend to achieve their dream. They don't get their body in instant. Even if some people get it on instant, they must be different. So, don't dream to have an easy life. After all, if all things are easy, you will easy to feel bore too.

Accepting that everything need a sacrifice, a hard work, a discipline, makes you easier to live with it. And after all that hard works give the result, you will find that Life that you might hate cause have given you so many hard times, but you always can through it, you fight and you win. Yes, YOU WIN!

So, from now on, no matter how BIG problems you are facing, try to remember that one day, after these all has passed, this is just a small problems and you might be laugh on it.

Life always hard, but it will be easier if you accept it and live with it. When you have reach the top, you'll know that what makes you success are all that hard times, hard works..

Love, Care, and Share
Khaerin

You Have A Wonderful Life and Journey

Dear Sweetest and Most Handsome Readers, ^o*

I think I missed something this few days, and I remember that I haven't write yet. So I open my blog and start this note.

Don't be Afraid to Break what You think as Comfort.

You must be say why, isn't it?

Yes, we don't need to be afraid to break the rules. We don't need to be scared because of being different. We don't need to feel ashamed because of being minority. Do you know why?

We have to be brave to break the rules IF it makes better. We have to get this courage to say that "This is who I am".. "This is what I am".. We must have this confidence even we just minority, because that's mean we are unique. And so nobody in this world, even twins that is same, it just similar.

For that reason, and for whole other reason, we have to treasure this life. Come out from your cage, come out from what you said as "Comfort Zone". For ups and downs. For Happiness or Sadness. For being wild or cool, for fun and serious. This is our life and we must learn to absorb every joy from every turns, at any age, from any where.

For being grateful of this universe, in order to have this wonderful life, to make this journey unforgettable, make it alive. Make it Simple and Alive.

I know YOU have a Wonderful Life and Journey out there!

Love, Care and Share
Sophie rin

The Most Precious

Happy Sunday my dear Readers,

Today I wanna share something with you about one of the most precious thing in our life. Some people say, it is health. Some other people say it is family. And maybe another one will say money or property, or asset.

But the one that I'm going to talk about is this, read carefully and enjoy it ^o^

One day, in her journey to climb up the mountain, a wise lady found a precious stone near the river. And the next day, she met a wanderer who was so eager with the precious stone and asked her to give it to him. She gave the stone doubtless. And so the wanderer continued his journey happily and feel so lucky. He know that the stone is priceless and can give him more than enough along his life. But few days later, he came back to the wise lady. "I've been thinking", he said. " I know how priceless this stone could be, but I want to give it back to you with a hope that you will give me something more precious than this. Give me something that you have inside of you which is can possibly made you give this stone to me".

My dear Readers,

How beautiful this life could be if everyone have this beautiful heart. Giving others that needing help is one of the greatest joy in our life. Sometimes we forget to give with devoutness, sometimes we still asking for a reward, a redemption, or a reply. For example, you met a beggar in the middle of the street, and you feel pity for him. Then you give him some cash, but when the beggar ain't say a "thank you" word, suddenly you feel regret, think that he actually don't deserve it cause he has no manner or you don't get a worship from him.

Well, that's just example. There's still so many things that happen around us, in our daily life. sometimes we just don't realize. When we smile to someone, and he/she doesn't smile back, we feel like rejected or heartache.

Ow, come one guys.. that's exactly what I mean that we didn't give with devoutness. We need them to reply us back, to give it back, something that we have delivered for him/her.

Think about it once again my dear. Who will gonna be more suffer, the beggar or you? Life isn't just about worship, or being adored, or being like. We will be more honorable if we just stop feeling like the greatest. All of us are still learning to become someone that is better and better than before, and that's including me ^o*

The most precious thing in our life is the greatest heart. A heart that is full of love, care, and never think bad about the others. I know this isn't easy. Besides, nowadays, there are so many criminal who always ready play tricky, a friend that might cheat on us, or a stranger that might be a killer. So, my suggest just like you've already heard before. Be alert and be careful when you met stranger. Even a friend can become the greatest enemy. We are careful not because negative thinking about that, but we play smart, we have to be smart. Fool and kind, sometimes just as thin as the paper

Back to our topic, the most precious.. So keep your heart good, keep you heart in safe. The greatest heart is the heart that can give without asking for return. The most precious heart, is the heart that you always hear when you do great things with low light, when nobody knows.

Love, Care and Share
Khaerin

Oct 10, 2011

My lovely friends,

Today is Oct 10, 2011. Today is my day. 2 years ago, I decided to choose a man to come into my life.

I let him open my heart once again, and since then, I start to feel different about this world. People often say that falling in love can make you feel alive. But sometimes that love is blind.

Knowing someone need time and process. Loving someone need time and process too. When you really understand and know the meaning of loving someone, you won't feel heartache. But this is the hardest part cause loving someone, usually we love him/her as someone we want to, not the real him/her, the way he/she is..

When you accept someone to come into your life, to share your life, include your burden, you have to prepare your heart, to let them free. As we all already know that we can't change someone. Someone changed because they've ready to change. All the information he/she got, an advice, a suggestion, or a demand from other people, they collect it and then re-think once again. They process all of it inside their mind/head, after that, they decide what to choose, what to change. So, the truth is, we only the third party, not the one who succeed to change someone to be better or worse. Cause the one who work hard and the one who choose what to decide, is the person itself.

Back to when I say that you have to prepare you heart to let them free. Why? Cause the best way to be with someone is to let them free, free to be what they wanna be. To do what they wanna do. That's how we can live harmony with other people. Of course the same thoughts, similar habit, character, or hobby, can tighten us more. But it doesn't make you have to "make" him/her to be the same with you. Now you know how hard exactly to love someone.. to really love someone. Do you still think that you already love him/her enough? I don't.. :D

My Young and Smart Readers,
I know you maybe disagree with me on some article, some idea, or some thoughts.. That's okay for me.. This is how we gonna live in harmony, I don't need to push you to accept my thoughts, and you do the same too.. isn't it?

Love can give us courage to do something that we've never dare to do before, cause it has power, a spirit..
Love can teach us how to be patient, to calm down.. cause it brings peace..
Love can make you laugh upon yourself, cause it taught you how to love yourself, cause to err is human
Love can make you smile and cry in the same time, cause it brings happiness, a joy for our life..
Love can make you learn how to listen, cause sometimes we are too busy with this one mouth
Love can teach you how to be on time, how to appreciate time and person, cause love like discipline

Love can fill the empty heart, to blossom once again, to feel young..
Love can cure your heart, from any heartache, cause love is to forgive..
Love is the light of our life, cause without love, this life will be cold and dark

Don't stop loving, even sometimes, often, our love is denied.
Khaerin

Every Wish Come True

My dear Readers,

I believe that most of us, maybe even everyone have a dream, a hope, a wish.. At least, just one ^o^

Many of us trying so hard to achieve our goal.. to get our dream.. Some of us are willing to do anything just to reach the dream. But not few that too lazy to get up and just sitting there complain about their pity life. I believe you are not one of them because we are too precious in this wonderful life to do such a thing, are you?

In this world, of course we have problems. But problems are always here and there. I don't say it always easy, sometimes it can be very hard. Some problems like forever, can't be solved. But you have to keep on trying and do your best to find a way, to face it, to sync with it (like Ipod ^o^)

Now I wanna say that every our wishes can becoming true, as long as you never stop believing that you can reach your dream, touch the sky. Miracle always happen only to them who really believe it and who really do his/her best and never let themselves down.. Even if they fall, they will get back up and put themselves back again. Only people who never give up and believe, have faith in their heart, their mind, that he/she can make it, reach it, touch it, get it, every wish will be coming true on them.

So, my beautiful and handsome readers,
From now on, don't you go to sleep or wake up in the morning before convince yourself that our life is full of miracle.. Our life is fill with great opportunities everywhere.. Our life are always open to any, every chances.. Our life won't stop just because one step mistake, or even hundreds failure.

My suggest, after those things that tries to take us down, keep your head,mind focus and your heart in quite and peace moment for a while. Then ask yourself, "Am I gonna let myself down? Am I gonna stop and quit now? How if I try one more time, using another way, another rules, another strategy, then I succeed?" Fail, just happen to them who stop just one more step before their success.

Every Wish Come True, as big as your hope, as high as your dream, as long as you keep fighting for the good things and let G see how beautiful your heart, how great is your effort and your willing to surrender when it is not your destiny, so G want you to take another turn, and be someone who you should be.

Love, Care and Share
Khaerin

How Purple Are You?

 This is one of my fav. I used to wear it when I was practicing dance.

I like it because it fit your body, so when  you dance, you can see the real move, is it left, or right. Or, are you shake enough your body.. :D

Anyway, I just love the color and the shape that make me feel sexy  ^o*

 This one is my fav gown.. Same as the above style, it fit our body. So when you wear it, you can feel the confident rising up and you will feel you are sexy (even if you are not sexy enough ^o^ kidding).

Anyway, the blink blink (the scarf)  is one of my favorite too.. My friend, actually, my acupuncturist gave me.. she gave me 2 thing for my birthday (when I was living in Bandung), another one is a belt, which is blink2 too, but the color is pink.. Maybe next time I'll show you..

 Well, this only the gown, without the blink blink ^^

 This one is my fav beach-must-bring-outfit.. Well, I have lots of them, but in different color, such as white with red roses, green, blue, or brown.

When I take this picture, I just realize that the color is so sexy.. I mean, it's deep purple mix with mauve.. So eye catching..

Well, that's for me, who loves purple much C:

 And this stuff that I have (not all of them).. bag, drink bottle, frame, mobile phone casing, socks, comb, the small desk, swimming skirt, sport mat, and pants.

I still have lunch box, bed sheet, hair pin, pendant, earings, bracelet, and etc, that is purple.. haha, I think I'm Purple Already..

 This clothes I got from my sister. She gave me 2 outfit like this.. And same as the scarf case, the other one is pink. But this sweater, I mean this purple one, just got into my heart.. First time I saw it, I felt in love with it. So purple, so blink blink.. haha.. so eye catching.. so sexy (without the cardigan).

 This is without the cardigan.. As you can see, it is very sexy.. isn't it? just fit with our body, and the body language will tell automatically, how confidence the woman who wearing it.. ^o^

I thought so..

And this is the last pic in this post.. The blouse and the shorts.. So simple..

Now, you have seen some of my purple collection..

So, How Purple Are You? Share with me ^o^



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Khaerin

The Thing Is What You Think

Hello my dear friends..

Today I wanna talk about how much affected we are of what we think.

Nowadays, I believe so many people in this world having so much problem in their life. Some people can face their problem easily, some are not. Some of them try so hard to solve their problem, and the other just sitting there crying for their fate. and many kind people out there have many ways how to facing problem.

The thing is what you think in your mind. If you believe that you can do it, then you must find one or another way to do it. If you believe you can not do anything, then it will be. It's just that simple. It sounds too easy. But when you really into something, you have to believe, you have to have that faith inside of you, so it will come real. If only you have that small doubt of yourself, I'm not saying it could be not work or success, but it makes the result not maximum, not the best.

So, my dear friends, learn and practice, start from small thing, daily activity. Once you start to practice and success, your faith upon yourself and your confidence will grow higher and higher. And when you realize that you are "big" or "smart" or "great" enough, you don't need to be afraid of anything. Then the thing is what you think..

I think I'm a great dancer. So whenever I go to practice or learn in a dance class, I learn my lesson very fast. That't because I have my faith, I'm a great dancer, so I will be. But because I've stopped practicing dance, I have no faith anymore to say that I'm a great dancer, but I'm a good dancer. Which mean, Believe in yourself, yes, it should be, you have to.. but don't be overestimate or arrogant. We have to know our limit as human too. Nobody's perfect. That mean, you can't always get what you want, or be what you want to be. But if you really work so hard to become something, you must be learn something good along the process.. Nothing and none is useless..

Love yourself, and believe!

Khaerin

If Waiting is Boring, So Don't Wait

Hello my friends..

I just wanna share this with you, which is maybe some of you already know. Well, it's basic actually. Hope you enjoy to read this.

Waiting is just so boring thing to do. People always hate when they knew they should wait for something. Okay, now I give you one shoot. If you don't like to wait, so don't wait!

You can do something when you are waiting such as read a book, listen to music, sing a song, or even just take a time to relax (if you are a busy man). You can enjoy your time, isn't it that you have to wait? so, why should be angry?

My friends.. Everything has their own time. We can not just make everything faster by skipping one thing to another.. let's say, a beautiful butterfly came from a larve.. but before it is a larve, it came from a cocoon.. So, everything need a process.. Just let it flow.. Waiting not always boring.. Change the "waiting" time to be something more important, more meaningful..

No time wasting when you are waiting because you use it effectively. By enjoying what you are really doing that time, you won't feel boring anymore.. you won't feel that waiting is boring anymore..

So guys, if waiting is boring, don't wait! Do something, anything that you can do to using that time more priceless. I bet you will be happier because no more any tension on waiting for something. Well, you can pray too if you are waiting for an answer or something important. Good Luck :D

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Sophie rin

Listen to Your Heart

Hello beautiful and handsome strangers,

Yesterday I just faced a dilemma. One is my career, my future, and another one is my mother.

A chance is offered to you, to get a higher level on your career. But if I take it, I have to move to another city, which mean leaving my Mom, whom I really want to take care of. It is a big dilemma for me. My career of course is about my future life.. and it's about our income. So to say, it is a really hard choice for me.

But after discussed with some of my best friends, the conclusion are like this. First of all, I only can choose one, because my Mom don't want to move to the other city. So, I have to ask whether she want to let me go and leaving her with my brother. Or second, I invite along her to come and stay with me at the other city. And the third but the most important is listen to your heart.

At first, I don't really get what its mean. I mean, I tried to listen to my heart, but I didn't hear anything.. I don't know how to listen. Then I lay back down.. in that short quite time, suddenly I got the answer. I find out that there's nothing to worry about. Everything still can be joyful. Either stay with mom and not take the offer, or ask mom for her blessing and go for my career.

So when I got home, I took a while to rest, bath, and ironed the clothes. Just exactly when I've done all the clothes, my mom came in to my room. She just came back from praying. So I started to talk with her. About the promotion, about the offer, and about how I want her to come along with me and how I think this is about my life, my future too. Without her blessing, I won't go, that what I said.

The result is good. My mom let me go and blessed me, but still her answer is not to come with me. Now I feel relief. I can took the offer and my mom said she will be fine and give her blessing for me. Eventhough actually it is hard for me to just let her stay and not to come with me, but I know, I will be fine and she will be fine. Mom's blessing is the greatest prayer and G knows it.

So, why should I scared from the beginning? Letting the fears come couldn't solve any problem. My hearts said that Mom will give the best answer I need. Isn't it whatever Mom's answer, that will do for me?

Guys, sometimes, when you couldn't see anything, or don't know which way to choose, just listen to your heart.. It will guide you to the best.

This is Our Choice

Hi guys.. This is our first meet.. Let me introduce myself..

I'm here using my nickname Khaerin.. You can call me Rin.. I made this blog cause I wanna share the color of my life, my love with you..

This is our choice, is the first title I chose. I think it's match with what we always do. I mean, in this world, in our life, we always have so many choices.. and we choose one to live with.. we choose our job, our hobby, our  friend, our subject to study, and so many others..

Of course some of them are God's.. even some people believe that everything we do, we have, is come from God, or happen because of God. Well, I love to write "God" with G. So next if you find me write a "G" letter, that means God :)

For me, myself, I prefer to say that people always have a right to choose anything.. to do anything.. but, they should take responsibility with the rest.. So to say, we are free to choose what kind of life we wanna live with.. how many people we want to connect with.. with whom we share our love with.. and of course, what subject we wanna write about :D

Guys, This is our choice.. Let's free our mind.. G give us so many choices.. Don't waste it!

Make a colorful life! Love, Care and Share!
Khaerin