HOW ABOUT CARE? GROWING UP?

Good Morning Rinners,

Today we talk about care. Most people must be very happy when knowing that other people are care about them. It is including everybody, whether they young or old, whether they are in a good health or sick. Whether they are rich or poor, in every conditions. Yes, it including if he's a bad guy, or a good guy.

All human beings need to be cared. We live in the same world, and that's why we have to care about other people too. Care about someone doesn't mean we have to take care about his/her health, finance, food, or everything. Care about someone do means make them become independent too. Independent that I'm talking here is preparing them to facing this world. Of course, even an independent woman/man still need others care, but basically, they've grown up.

Caring can be shown in many ways. From the simple one to the complicated one. Have you ever think that your smile in the rainy dawn have warmed up ones poor and cold guy at the corner of the block of your house? Or have you ever think that when you can't finish your meal, or bread, better than throwing in a trash can, and then just share them with the hungry man out there, it simply makes them very happy? Well, I'm not saying we give them only the left over food, it will be better if we intend to give them from the beginning.

Or for the complicated one, I think we have to prepare more attention, spending more times, knowing deeper what their needs, etc.

One person might be called has grown up when they starts to think about other people, care about other people. Cause when you want to take care of other people, you must take care of your own self first. One grown up man not always can take care of other people, but one who can take care of other people, can be considered as a grown up man.

Now, we just need to choose, what to become, what to do. As I said before, caring can be shown in many ways. If you can not do the big things, then try simply things. Because simply things not always mean simple for others. You can be the angel, or you can be the devil. We never know how much our life will be worth if you can not do good things. And remember, some action of caring sometimes need sacrifices, and it will be better when only few people knows. Coz showing off your action just make the good deeds you've planted decrease. Except, you want to invite other people or join you to do a bigger things that you couldn't do alone, and that is for others who need it much.

So now, Let's Care and be Grown Up ^o*
Khaerin