LOOKING FOR SOLUTION

Good Evening Rinners,

I got a name for you who read and enjoy my blog, hope you don't mind.. or you can suggest any names? C:

This evening I wanna talk about how people looking for solution when they get into trouble. We people have so many ways and again, everyone's way is different. I'll give you a hint and you decide which one fits on you.

1. Finding the cause
We often fighting for something that in the end, when you ask what is the problem, then you got confused. Why? Because you don't find the cause. You only fight because of your ego, because don't want to be blamed, because don't wanna be the looser. But what exactly you got when the problem still unsolved, in fact, both of parties, no one win.

Finding the cause makes you think how to break it down and find a way to solve it. Either to look for more information, or just try again with other plans. You may find and choose what the best for each condition.

2. Getting more information
Some of us too lazy to find out more information for the problems they're facing. Some people get used to be served quickly. They want to know the basic point only. They won't dig deeper for they think it just wasting their time. So with the simply information, they think they've found the solution, in fact, that's not always enough. Sometimes, it makes more misunderstanding or mistakes.

3. Don't too quick to judge
We live in a busy world and it affecting our mind. People are expected to solve problem quickly. Some of them just leave it there and others are running away. But not much, who judge something just by the skin or by the cover you say. People nowadays are too easily cheated or bullied. Just with one sentence or a few lines of news, they've thought that all are the fact. After that, they are spit it words too quick or even have not think about it once again. Then the bigger problem comes and they have to fixed it again. Instead of solving problems, they are adding more unnecessary mistakes.

4. Following other's advice
In order to have a better life, we should not ignore a friend suggestion or disregard elders advice. I'm not talking about how old ones already, but the advice from a wise man can't be measured from the age. But experienced and open minded person can learn faster and solve any problem easier without any obstacle. Experiences train people to be better and so they can give a better advice for them who need it and for who haven't passed that situation.

So don't need to feel ashamed for following other's advice, it doesn't make you a looser.

5. Keep on trying and positive thinking
Last but still very important, keep on trying to look for solution in one or another way. Don't forget to keep positive thinking, for it will guide you to get a great success.

Always with love, care and share
Khaerin