MISSING YOU

Dear Rinners,

It's been busy month. Lots of works and jobs. Lots of changes. But today I let my fingers come to the keyboard, type the address and share some thought with you. I hope you still enjoy my blog C:

These last few days has been a very colorful day. From tears to laugh.. sadness to happiness.. People come and go.. Separated and Married.. I just reminded again my life has been so blessed when I saw so many poor and hunger outside there.. when this rainy and cold days come, they have nothing to wear or to eat. Or they've been left at nursing home because their family too busy to take care of them. Or the people who have no home to stay.. I still got a roof on my head, a bed under my back and a pillow to sleep. A jacket when I'm cold too..

Dear Rinners,

So many things and times we left everyday. We did things and passed time. Not often we don't remember what we have done just since morning, or early weekend. Some of us have a really busy day, busy life.. and not many of us still have time to build a good relationship, a good communication with family, friends or people. I myself admit that when a day so full of works, when I arrived home, I really just feel like want to have a rest. A time for my self.

But... do you know how many people outside there that really missing you? We may not know what we've done to others or how big we effect our surround environment. But if you do have a good relationship, do good things, kindly chat with neighbour, or just a smile that you throw when you pass the security guard, everyone might feel different about you.

Keep contact with your friends, don't just when you need them...
Keep chit chat with neighbours, don't just when you want to borrow something...
Keep accompany oldster, for they always did that when we little..
Keep your eyes alive, your arms giving hug and warm, your hands to hold and a shoulder to cry on..

People always busy fighting to get a better life and people always missing a friend, a brother, a sister, a someone like YOU.

Now you know, I'm Missing You.. Rinners C:

Love, Care and Share
Khaerin

NEVER GIVE UP

Dear Rinners,

How are you lately? I hope today you are great.

I just had my birthday party with my best friend here. My birthday was yesterday, but just celebrate it today.

Last year has been a great year and I hope this year and next year ahead are gonna be better. I really enjoy my life and I think I learn a lot of things this year. May all the experiences trained me to be more mature, wiser and better on making any decision.

I know we easy to make mistake, but one thing for sure, I'm glad that I've never regret for what I've done. I mean, I like to keep it that way. If I'm wrong, I learn from it, I admit that I'm wrong and I move forward. And I still can make it right. What so shame of making mistake? And sometimes, it even not a mistake. It just we know something better, but it doesn't make the one before is a mistake, right? Do you understand what I'm saying? Well, I hope so :D

So, making mistake is not a big problem for me. I'm saying that we can learn a lot of things from a mistake, or from a failure. The problem is you gonna stop and give it up or are you gonna stand up and fix it. If you never give up and always eager to learn to be better, then there's nothing wrong with it. Just live you life to the absolute fullest! Because a person that always afraid of do or decide something, then he might loose the greatest lesson in it. Every step that we take always have to bring us to a better place. A better place means if it success, then it's good. And if it fail, then we should have something to learn. Not just letting go the priceless lesson, because everything that happen on your life cost you a great price. What is that? It cost you time.

Time can never be turn back. Time always leave you with thousand moments, meanings, lessons. So, every work hard, every success, every failure, cost you a "TIME".

So my dear Rinners,

Wherever you are, whatever you do, please remember this line, "NEVER GIVE UP". Never give up especially upon yourself. If you are really facing a BIG problem, then THINK at least for your own good. Don't worry or matter about what other people thought. Their thought not worth if it just make you down. Think BIG! Think for the BEST of your life! Is that so important things so may let you down??? Why it should let you down! You have another way, another person, another chance, another choice, another decision that will make you proud to be yourself. That you can hold your head high and know that you are WORTH more than that. That you are PRICELESS, that you are SOMEONE. That no matter what happens on you now, YOU WILL PASS THIS EXAM because you are YOU!

Love, Care and Share
Khaerin

IT JUST ABOUT UP AND DOWN

Good morning Rinners,

I got sick since Sunday. I got fever and feel so limp. After that, that bad news come. I just didn't know what to do anymore. Felt like everything loose from my hand, my mind. I just laid down and the tears just shed. I was losing my power.

I couldn't sleep. Honestly, it has been nights I don't have a good night sleep. I don't know why, like there's something in my brain just won't stop. But that night, just fell asleep after tired of shedding tears.

Monday, I called out sick, I ain't go to work. Because yes, it is really sick. I got fever, all my body like drain out, and my stomach was like stressed. I went to doctor in the afternoon. He said dehydrated.

Sometimes things can be very funny. When lucky, happiness comes to you, all the positive comes to you too. And when sick, sadness, bad news, everything, it come along with all the negatives too. It feels like everything try to take you down. Maybe you ever feel this way too.

Well, I'm just saying that I don't give up, and not gonna giving it up. I know it hurts, hurts like just wanna disappear from this world. Trust me, I know pains too. But I ain't gonna do that because of that reason. Someday when I leave, I'll leave because I'm going closer to my happiness.

And when I can't do anything but took a rest on my bed, there's an answer for 1 of my many questions pop up in my mind. Why I ever tried to do some stupid things (maybe still coming in my mind sometimes, but rarely) yet I have known that is bad? The answer is because of what I've ever seen when I was a kid. That experience just can not be erased like if you wrote some mistakes on paper. But who should I blamed on? Well, honestly, I don't wanna blame anyone... really.. but they don't know, or never really know why "we" ever tried to do that thing.

Now I have my G in my heart.. and still there for the rest of my life. I believe that this is just about Up and Down. If it doesn't kill me, it just to make me stronger...

I stand on my own,
Khaerin

HOW ABOUT CARE? GROWING UP?

Good Morning Rinners,

Today we talk about care. Most people must be very happy when knowing that other people are care about them. It is including everybody, whether they young or old, whether they are in a good health or sick. Whether they are rich or poor, in every conditions. Yes, it including if he's a bad guy, or a good guy.

All human beings need to be cared. We live in the same world, and that's why we have to care about other people too. Care about someone doesn't mean we have to take care about his/her health, finance, food, or everything. Care about someone do means make them become independent too. Independent that I'm talking here is preparing them to facing this world. Of course, even an independent woman/man still need others care, but basically, they've grown up.

Caring can be shown in many ways. From the simple one to the complicated one. Have you ever think that your smile in the rainy dawn have warmed up ones poor and cold guy at the corner of the block of your house? Or have you ever think that when you can't finish your meal, or bread, better than throwing in a trash can, and then just share them with the hungry man out there, it simply makes them very happy? Well, I'm not saying we give them only the left over food, it will be better if we intend to give them from the beginning.

Or for the complicated one, I think we have to prepare more attention, spending more times, knowing deeper what their needs, etc.

One person might be called has grown up when they starts to think about other people, care about other people. Cause when you want to take care of other people, you must take care of your own self first. One grown up man not always can take care of other people, but one who can take care of other people, can be considered as a grown up man.

Now, we just need to choose, what to become, what to do. As I said before, caring can be shown in many ways. If you can not do the big things, then try simply things. Because simply things not always mean simple for others. You can be the angel, or you can be the devil. We never know how much our life will be worth if you can not do good things. And remember, some action of caring sometimes need sacrifices, and it will be better when only few people knows. Coz showing off your action just make the good deeds you've planted decrease. Except, you want to invite other people or join you to do a bigger things that you couldn't do alone, and that is for others who need it much.

So now, Let's Care and be Grown Up ^o*
Khaerin

LOOKING FOR SOLUTION

Good Evening Rinners,

I got a name for you who read and enjoy my blog, hope you don't mind.. or you can suggest any names? C:

This evening I wanna talk about how people looking for solution when they get into trouble. We people have so many ways and again, everyone's way is different. I'll give you a hint and you decide which one fits on you.

1. Finding the cause
We often fighting for something that in the end, when you ask what is the problem, then you got confused. Why? Because you don't find the cause. You only fight because of your ego, because don't want to be blamed, because don't wanna be the looser. But what exactly you got when the problem still unsolved, in fact, both of parties, no one win.

Finding the cause makes you think how to break it down and find a way to solve it. Either to look for more information, or just try again with other plans. You may find and choose what the best for each condition.

2. Getting more information
Some of us too lazy to find out more information for the problems they're facing. Some people get used to be served quickly. They want to know the basic point only. They won't dig deeper for they think it just wasting their time. So with the simply information, they think they've found the solution, in fact, that's not always enough. Sometimes, it makes more misunderstanding or mistakes.

3. Don't too quick to judge
We live in a busy world and it affecting our mind. People are expected to solve problem quickly. Some of them just leave it there and others are running away. But not much, who judge something just by the skin or by the cover you say. People nowadays are too easily cheated or bullied. Just with one sentence or a few lines of news, they've thought that all are the fact. After that, they are spit it words too quick or even have not think about it once again. Then the bigger problem comes and they have to fixed it again. Instead of solving problems, they are adding more unnecessary mistakes.

4. Following other's advice
In order to have a better life, we should not ignore a friend suggestion or disregard elders advice. I'm not talking about how old ones already, but the advice from a wise man can't be measured from the age. But experienced and open minded person can learn faster and solve any problem easier without any obstacle. Experiences train people to be better and so they can give a better advice for them who need it and for who haven't passed that situation.

So don't need to feel ashamed for following other's advice, it doesn't make you a looser.

5. Keep on trying and positive thinking
Last but still very important, keep on trying to look for solution in one or another way. Don't forget to keep positive thinking, for it will guide you to get a great success.

Always with love, care and share
Khaerin