Saturday, 29 October 2011

JUMP AND REACH YOUR FUTURE

Good Morning Sunshine,

I just got good news and bad news yesterday. Well, whatever it is, I still have to live my life, isn't it?

As I wrote before, all of us has dream. But along the way to achieve our dream and our goal, there must be something we left, sacrifice. Times, for playing, chit chat with friends on cafe for example.

We live in this world to move forward and still, everybody's point of view about moving forward is different. One person think that getting rich is moving forward, but a monk don't think the same way. One person think to be the boss is moving forward, have a big company, but for a librarian or a nerd, they don't need that. Because everyone's dream is different, their goal is different. That's why some people don't understand when a guy, example a football player, practice so hard just to win a competition, but for some other people that is a stupid game while eleven, I'm sorry, 22 guys chasing a round ball.

We live in the same world, but we live a different dream. You can't push someone to be a boss when he/she don't wanna be the boss. But still we need to be open minded. Chasing or focus on our goal, doesn't mean that we have to forget our environment. We are social human.

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The above theory I wrote yesterday.. but I have to stop because I have lot of urgent things to do. Now when I get back, I lost the soul of this topic. But I'm gonna keep write about this topic.

What I wanna say is that if we want to get closer to our goal, to our dream, we must jump and reach out our future. We can not just stand or sit, waiting for some miracle but don't do any effort. If we take everything slowly, then we will be left behind. If we don't wanna lose a chance, then we should be quick.

So dear Readers, Jump and Reach Your "Better" Future!

Khaerin

Tuesday, 25 October 2011

APPRECIATE SMALL THINGS

Good Day Readers,

Today I found out this topic to write for it is so easily to forget. Yes, we often forget to appreciate small things.

Nowadays, we are common to look busy, no matter you are old, young, rich, poor, everyone looks so busy. Working or making money, either to fulfill other needs, or their own needs. That's why in recent decay, people show no respect to "life".

Many people to busy with their own activity, daily life, too busy digging money. Some parents even looks like have forgotten that they already have a babies, a kid, a children, who need their attention, their love beside their money C:

"But I myself need and deserve a "me time", can't I?"

Hey, that's why I'm saying that you need to appreciate small things, start from yourself. If you, yourself don't feel happy, how can you see this outside world as a great universe? If you can't appreciate the air that you breath, the grass that grows green on your back yard, someday you might be forget that you are alive.

Guys, appreciate small things doesn't mean that make you focus to only small things. It means that if you already be grateful for what you have now, and still have a big dream, you will be highly spirit to get or to do whatever it takes to achieve your bigger dream. Why? Because a man that is happier and grateful with their life, will be success faster than the not one. Because success not always about the money, not always about having the biggest property, or the richest, or the smartest.

A Success Man is the man that can appreciate small things by doing great things, happy and grateful but still have a desire to make others happy too, especially the one they love.

So from now on, if you just realize that you've forgotten to appreciate these small things, just look around and you'll find it. You'll find how beautiful this life could be, only need a minute to turn this world upside down. Just take a minute, walking down the street, go to a park, see so many people, just watch the kiddos playing on the play ground. So full of fun, they enjoy everything. they laugh after they fall, and they get back up right after they fall.

Why are we forget to appreciate this small things? Because we are too busy concern with other small things that don't deserve our attention. So try to remember this, "appreciate only the small things that can make you a Bigger and Happier person. If it don't, then just leave it."

Enjoy your day, Smile and Touch The Sky!

Love, Care and Share
Khaerin

Sunday, 23 October 2011

LIFE ALWAYS HARD

Good Evening My Dears,

We all have our hobbies, we interested in different things. Some of us like science, some of us like technology, art, and so many other things in this whole world.

As we already know, we absorb any information from everything around us. From books, TV's, internet, school, family, friend's story, and etc. We learn and practice in the same time. We take everything we can to increase our knowledge, and maybe it's from our hobbies too.

What I'm saying here is simple. Example, I like dance, one of my hobbies is dancing. And so with movies. I like watching movies. And because I like dancing, I like to watch dancing movies. But, when I watch these dancing movies, I'm not only learn how to dance, or the new steps, but I learn another thing from that movie.

This morning, when I cleaning up room, I saw my dance movie collection. Suddenly, I feel like wanna see those movie. After one movie to another movie, I feel like refresh. I feel like there's something I've forgotten, that I've learned before from the movie. An education that taught us that life never been easier when you ready to face it. Life always hard, and that's how it makes us stronger like now, that's why it makes us greater like now.

Just imagine, that if you just sitting there, doing nothing in your life, would it be great like what you've got right now? Would it be more success than right now? No, hell no.. We can be like today because of we fighting everyday, doing something that make us bigger than yesterday. We may barely even don't know what we've been through, but believe me, everyone who never give up on being a better person, they shall be happy now. Because what doesn't kill you, it makes you stronger. And if you learn something new everyday, you may become more expert on what you really like, that you always do everyday. Just like a chef, that always practice in the kitchen, so he can cook and make a delicious food or dessert for us.

We are expected to be ready anytime, to accept that is no easy word if you want to get a great success. We need to sacrifice, we have to fight for all the laziness. To get a beautiful body, a model have to learn how to control what they eat, to maintain their health, they do sports everyday, and to get a great attitude, they learn how to stand tall and how to walk with confidence. Every minute they spend to achieve their dream. They don't get their body in instant. Even if some people get it on instant, they must be different. So, don't dream to have an easy life. After all, if all things are easy, you will easy to feel bore too.

Accepting that everything need a sacrifice, a hard work, a discipline, makes you easier to live with it. And after all that hard works give the result, you will find that Life that you might hate cause have given you so many hard times, but you always can through it, you fight and you win. Yes, YOU WIN!

So, from now on, no matter how BIG problems you are facing, try to remember that one day, after these all has passed, this is just a small problems and you might be laugh on it.

Life always hard, but it will be easier if you accept it and live with it. When you have reach the top, you'll know that what makes you success are all that hard times, hard works..

Love, Care, and Share
Khaerin

Wednesday, 19 October 2011

You Have A Wonderful Life and Journey

Dear Sweetest and Most Handsome Readers, ^o*

I think I missed something this few days, and I remember that I haven't write yet. So I open my blog and start this note.

Don't be Afraid to Break what You think as Comfort.

You must be say why, isn't it?

Yes, we don't need to be afraid to break the rules. We don't need to be scared because of being different. We don't need to feel ashamed because of being minority. Do you know why?

We have to be brave to break the rules IF it makes better. We have to get this courage to say that "This is who I am".. "This is what I am".. We must have this confidence even we just minority, because that's mean we are unique. And so nobody in this world, even twins that is same, it just similar.

For that reason, and for whole other reason, we have to treasure this life. Come out from your cage, come out from what you said as "Comfort Zone". For ups and downs. For Happiness or Sadness. For being wild or cool, for fun and serious. This is our life and we must learn to absorb every joy from every turns, at any age, from any where.

For being grateful of this universe, in order to have this wonderful life, to make this journey unforgettable, make it alive. Make it Simple and Alive.

I know YOU have a Wonderful Life and Journey out there!

Love, Care and Share
Sophie rin

Sunday, 16 October 2011

The Most Precious

Happy Sunday my dear Readers,

Today I wanna share something with you about one of the most precious thing in our life. Some people say, it is health. Some other people say it is family. And maybe another one will say money or property, or asset.

But the one that I'm going to talk about is this, read carefully and enjoy it ^o^

One day, in her journey to climb up the mountain, a wise lady found a precious stone near the river. And the next day, she met a wanderer who was so eager with the precious stone and asked her to give it to him. She gave the stone doubtless. And so the wanderer continued his journey happily and feel so lucky. He know that the stone is priceless and can give him more than enough along his life. But few days later, he came back to the wise lady. "I've been thinking", he said. " I know how priceless this stone could be, but I want to give it back to you with a hope that you will give me something more precious than this. Give me something that you have inside of you which is can possibly made you give this stone to me".

My dear Readers,

How beautiful this life could be if everyone have this beautiful heart. Giving others that needing help is one of the greatest joy in our life. Sometimes we forget to give with devoutness, sometimes we still asking for a reward, a redemption, or a reply. For example, you met a beggar in the middle of the street, and you feel pity for him. Then you give him some cash, but when the beggar ain't say a "thank you" word, suddenly you feel regret, think that he actually don't deserve it cause he has no manner or you don't get a worship from him.

Well, that's just example. There's still so many things that happen around us, in our daily life. sometimes we just don't realize. When we smile to someone, and he/she doesn't smile back, we feel like rejected or heartache.

Ow, come one guys.. that's exactly what I mean that we didn't give with devoutness. We need them to reply us back, to give it back, something that we have delivered for him/her.

Think about it once again my dear. Who will gonna be more suffer, the beggar or you? Life isn't just about worship, or being adored, or being like. We will be more honorable if we just stop feeling like the greatest. All of us are still learning to become someone that is better and better than before, and that's including me ^o*

The most precious thing in our life is the greatest heart. A heart that is full of love, care, and never think bad about the others. I know this isn't easy. Besides, nowadays, there are so many criminal who always ready play tricky, a friend that might cheat on us, or a stranger that might be a killer. So, my suggest just like you've already heard before. Be alert and be careful when you met stranger. Even a friend can become the greatest enemy. We are careful not because negative thinking about that, but we play smart, we have to be smart. Fool and kind, sometimes just as thin as the paper

Back to our topic, the most precious.. So keep your heart good, keep you heart in safe. The greatest heart is the heart that can give without asking for return. The most precious heart, is the heart that you always hear when you do great things with low light, when nobody knows.

Love, Care and Share
Khaerin

Monday, 10 October 2011

Oct 10, 2011

My lovely friends,

Today is Oct 10, 2011. Today is my day. 2 years ago, I decided to choose a man to come into my life.

I let him open my heart once again, and since then, I start to feel different about this world. People often say that falling in love can make you feel alive. But sometimes that love is blind.

Knowing someone need time and process. Loving someone need time and process too. When you really understand and know the meaning of loving someone, you won't feel heartache. But this is the hardest part cause loving someone, usually we love him/her as someone we want to, not the real him/her, the way he/she is..

When you accept someone to come into your life, to share your life, include your burden, you have to prepare your heart, to let them free. As we all already know that we can't change someone. Someone changed because they've ready to change. All the information he/she got, an advice, a suggestion, or a demand from other people, they collect it and then re-think once again. They process all of it inside their mind/head, after that, they decide what to choose, what to change. So, the truth is, we only the third party, not the one who succeed to change someone to be better or worse. Cause the one who work hard and the one who choose what to decide, is the person itself.

Back to when I say that you have to prepare you heart to let them free. Why? Cause the best way to be with someone is to let them free, free to be what they wanna be. To do what they wanna do. That's how we can live harmony with other people. Of course the same thoughts, similar habit, character, or hobby, can tighten us more. But it doesn't make you have to "make" him/her to be the same with you. Now you know how hard exactly to love someone.. to really love someone. Do you still think that you already love him/her enough? I don't.. :D

My Young and Smart Readers,
I know you maybe disagree with me on some article, some idea, or some thoughts.. That's okay for me.. This is how we gonna live in harmony, I don't need to push you to accept my thoughts, and you do the same too.. isn't it?

Love can give us courage to do something that we've never dare to do before, cause it has power, a spirit..
Love can teach us how to be patient, to calm down.. cause it brings peace..
Love can make you laugh upon yourself, cause it taught you how to love yourself, cause to err is human
Love can make you smile and cry in the same time, cause it brings happiness, a joy for our life..
Love can make you learn how to listen, cause sometimes we are too busy with this one mouth
Love can teach you how to be on time, how to appreciate time and person, cause love like discipline

Love can fill the empty heart, to blossom once again, to feel young..
Love can cure your heart, from any heartache, cause love is to forgive..
Love is the light of our life, cause without love, this life will be cold and dark

Don't stop loving, even sometimes, often, our love is denied.
Khaerin

Sunday, 9 October 2011

Every Wish Come True

My dear Readers,

I believe that most of us, maybe even everyone have a dream, a hope, a wish.. At least, just one ^o^

Many of us trying so hard to achieve our goal.. to get our dream.. Some of us are willing to do anything just to reach the dream. But not few that too lazy to get up and just sitting there complain about their pity life. I believe you are not one of them because we are too precious in this wonderful life to do such a thing, are you?

In this world, of course we have problems. But problems are always here and there. I don't say it always easy, sometimes it can be very hard. Some problems like forever, can't be solved. But you have to keep on trying and do your best to find a way, to face it, to sync with it (like Ipod ^o^)

Now I wanna say that every our wishes can becoming true, as long as you never stop believing that you can reach your dream, touch the sky. Miracle always happen only to them who really believe it and who really do his/her best and never let themselves down.. Even if they fall, they will get back up and put themselves back again. Only people who never give up and believe, have faith in their heart, their mind, that he/she can make it, reach it, touch it, get it, every wish will be coming true on them.

So, my beautiful and handsome readers,
From now on, don't you go to sleep or wake up in the morning before convince yourself that our life is full of miracle.. Our life is fill with great opportunities everywhere.. Our life are always open to any, every chances.. Our life won't stop just because one step mistake, or even hundreds failure.

My suggest, after those things that tries to take us down, keep your head,mind focus and your heart in quite and peace moment for a while. Then ask yourself, "Am I gonna let myself down? Am I gonna stop and quit now? How if I try one more time, using another way, another rules, another strategy, then I succeed?" Fail, just happen to them who stop just one more step before their success.

Every Wish Come True, as big as your hope, as high as your dream, as long as you keep fighting for the good things and let G see how beautiful your heart, how great is your effort and your willing to surrender when it is not your destiny, so G want you to take another turn, and be someone who you should be.

Love, Care and Share
Khaerin

Saturday, 8 October 2011

How Purple Are You?

 This is one of my fav. I used to wear it when I was practicing dance.

I like it because it fit your body, so when  you dance, you can see the real move, is it left, or right. Or, are you shake enough your body.. :D

Anyway, I just love the color and the shape that make me feel sexy  ^o*
 This one is my fav gown.. Same as the above style, it fit our body. So when you wear it, you can feel the confident rising up and you will feel you are sexy (even if you are not sexy enough ^o^ kidding).

Anyway, the blink blink (the scarf)  is one of my favorite too.. My friend, actually, my acupuncturist gave me.. she gave me 2 thing for my birthday (when I was living in Bandung), another one is a belt, which is blink2 too, but the color is pink.. Maybe next time I'll show you..
 Well, this only the gown, without the blink blink ^^
 This one is my fav beach-must-bring-outfit.. Well, I have lots of them, but in different color, such as white with red roses, green, blue, or brown.

When I take this picture, I just realize that the color is so sexy.. I mean, it's deep purple mix with mauve.. So eye catching..

Well, that's for me, who loves purple much C:
 And this stuff that I have (not all of them).. bag, drink bottle, frame, mobile phone casing, socks, comb, the small desk, swimming skirt, sport mat, and pants.

I still have lunch box, bed sheet, hair pin, pendant, earings, bracelet, and etc, that is purple.. haha, I think I'm Purple Already..
 This clothes I got from my sister. She gave me 2 outfit like this.. And same as the scarf case, the other one is pink. But this sweater, I mean this purple one, just got into my heart.. First time I saw it, I felt in love with it. So purple, so blink blink.. haha.. so eye catching.. so sexy (without the cardigan).
 This is without the cardigan.. As you can see, it is very sexy.. isn't it? just fit with our body, and the body language will tell automatically, how confidence the woman who wearing it.. ^o^

I thought so..
And this is the last pic in this post.. The blouse and the shorts.. So simple..

Now, you have seen some of my purple collection..

So, How Purple Are You? Share with me ^o^



Love, Care and Share
Khaerin

Sunday, 2 October 2011

The Thing Is What You Think

Hello my dear friends..

Today I wanna talk about how much affected we are of what we think.

Nowadays, I believe so many people in this world having so much problem in their life. Some people can face their problem easily, some are not. Some of them try so hard to solve their problem, and the other just sitting there crying for their fate. and many kind people out there have many ways how to facing problem.

The thing is what you think in your mind. If you believe that you can do it, then you must find one or another way to do it. If you believe you can not do anything, then it will be. It's just that simple. It sounds too easy. But when you really into something, you have to believe, you have to have that faith inside of you, so it will come real. If only you have that small doubt of yourself, I'm not saying it could be not work or success, but it makes the result not maximum, not the best.

So, my dear friends, learn and practice, start from small thing, daily activity. Once you start to practice and success, your faith upon yourself and your confidence will grow higher and higher. And when you realize that you are "big" or "smart" or "great" enough, you don't need to be afraid of anything. Then the thing is what you think..

I think I'm a great dancer. So whenever I go to practice or learn in a dance class, I learn my lesson very fast. That't because I have my faith, I'm a great dancer, so I will be. But because I've stopped practicing dance, I have no faith anymore to say that I'm a great dancer, but I'm a good dancer. Which mean, Believe in yourself, yes, it should be, you have to.. but don't be overestimate or arrogant. We have to know our limit as human too. Nobody's perfect. That mean, you can't always get what you want, or be what you want to be. But if you really work so hard to become something, you must be learn something good along the process.. Nothing and none is useless..

Love yourself, and believe!

Khaerin