Oct 10, 2011

My lovely friends,

Today is Oct 10, 2011. Today is my day. 2 years ago, I decided to choose a man to come into my life.

I let him open my heart once again, and since then, I start to feel different about this world. People often say that falling in love can make you feel alive. But sometimes that love is blind.

Knowing someone need time and process. Loving someone need time and process too. When you really understand and know the meaning of loving someone, you won't feel heartache. But this is the hardest part cause loving someone, usually we love him/her as someone we want to, not the real him/her, the way he/she is..

When you accept someone to come into your life, to share your life, include your burden, you have to prepare your heart, to let them free. As we all already know that we can't change someone. Someone changed because they've ready to change. All the information he/she got, an advice, a suggestion, or a demand from other people, they collect it and then re-think once again. They process all of it inside their mind/head, after that, they decide what to choose, what to change. So, the truth is, we only the third party, not the one who succeed to change someone to be better or worse. Cause the one who work hard and the one who choose what to decide, is the person itself.

Back to when I say that you have to prepare you heart to let them free. Why? Cause the best way to be with someone is to let them free, free to be what they wanna be. To do what they wanna do. That's how we can live harmony with other people. Of course the same thoughts, similar habit, character, or hobby, can tighten us more. But it doesn't make you have to "make" him/her to be the same with you. Now you know how hard exactly to love someone.. to really love someone. Do you still think that you already love him/her enough? I don't.. :D

My Young and Smart Readers,
I know you maybe disagree with me on some article, some idea, or some thoughts.. That's okay for me.. This is how we gonna live in harmony, I don't need to push you to accept my thoughts, and you do the same too.. isn't it?

Love can give us courage to do something that we've never dare to do before, cause it has power, a spirit..
Love can teach us how to be patient, to calm down.. cause it brings peace..
Love can make you laugh upon yourself, cause it taught you how to love yourself, cause to err is human
Love can make you smile and cry in the same time, cause it brings happiness, a joy for our life..
Love can make you learn how to listen, cause sometimes we are too busy with this one mouth
Love can teach you how to be on time, how to appreciate time and person, cause love like discipline

Love can fill the empty heart, to blossom once again, to feel young..
Love can cure your heart, from any heartache, cause love is to forgive..
Love is the light of our life, cause without love, this life will be cold and dark

Don't stop loving, even sometimes, often, our love is denied.
Khaerin