Dear Rinners,
It's been a while..
Lately, I got several phone calls from my friends. Some of them telling me how hard they survive in this life, some of them share how God has shown them to live this life more beautiful.
The point I got from their stories is this, "never be the shadow"..
Some of you maybe will ask, what's the meaning.. I'll share my thoughts..
We often live our busy life until we forget to be grateful to God. We often say "Thanks God" but not really realized how much God has put his love in our lives. We fight and fight to be a better person, but we still can't accept when we were down, when someone stole our time, our money, when someone cheat on us, and other bad things that happened.
Some people jealous of others, cause they live in a bigger house, more cars, more money, or have a great family, or better jobs, business.. But guys, here's the fact.
We were born to be "Someone". We were born to be "Special". We were born to be "Unique".
Else that happen with other people lives, is made by themselves, or ruled by God. We are not supposed to be dictated, what should to do, what should to say, or even what should to be.. The only one who take responsibility of ourself, is "us". Look at yourself, when you work hard to get another level of your life, who's the one that proud? Who's the one that get appreciation from other people?
Don't be anyone's shadow! Never be the shadow!
We will never feel satisfied, or free whenever we try to be somebody else. Guys, wake up!
You are the best you can be! You are not "him" or "her".. You are Yourself!
You fight to be better, and God help you with His own way.. Believe and Trust!
Love, Care and Share
Sophie rin
Wednesday, 8 August 2012
Sunday, 27 May 2012
Once A Time
Trying to find a peace that I might have lost, somewhere, somehow..
I walked a long the shore and found out there's nothing wrong..
But when I step aside, I felt the breeze.. and then it comes to a rhyme..
"Moments passed..
Heartaches don't stay..
Let the breeze sweep the pain away
Let the waves create a new overlay
Walk on, never look back..
The beauty of you won't be lack.."
"Hope and dream
Faith and desire
Put all those in your mind theme
You will succeed sooner or later
Don't be afraid, don't be scared
Your confidence and patience
Will bring you to the best at the end"
Now, everything comes clear to me.. I just need a walk, found back my self.. And run again to make it real my hopes and dreams..
Dear Rinners,
Sometimes, you just need a walk.. That's all you need to do..
Love, Care and Share
Khaerin
45 LESSONS LIFE TAUGHT ME
"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life
taught me. It is the most-requested column I've ever written."
My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree..
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain..
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously.. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's,we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."
My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree..
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain..
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously.. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's,we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."
Friday, 10 February 2012
Hide and Seek
Dear Rinners,
After in the down phase so long, I'm getting up back.. And I feel so easy, so free again.. Thanks G for helping me through all this phase..
So, how are you all Rinners? I really wish you in the good condition. And if you are not, I wish you can pass through all of your problems with a strong and great spirit to always look for the positive behind it all.
Sometimes, often, we don't realize what we've been through, what have made us so we all can be like what we are now... Every episode of our life, that's what exactly what made us to be like now..
Don't say "no matter what I've done, nobody care"!
Do you know how many creatures are staring at you right now? how many people care about you right now? It just somehow, not everybody can "do and act" facing your problem. They are not you. They can not be you. That's why, they only can do something which they think it might help you.. Some people pray for you, some other give you advises, some people shows their sympathy, some people really "do and act" according your situation to help you.
Anyway, you may not doubt that there's no one care. G care..
So my dear Rinners,
Let's make a new target again.. Make some plans again. Put all of your effort to get what you really want.. If you really want something, you will find a way to get it. And if you have big enough dream, reach it! Nothing or nobody will stop you. Reach your dream, Live your life! Don't be coward and be somebody else's.. You are You.
Proud of yourself, Be the Best you should be. And if you think you are in the right way, prove it. You don't have to show off, and you don't have to be arrogant. You just have to prove to yourself, follow your heart, your truly heart, which will remind you, over and over again. Are you really happy right now? Are you really want to do this? Have you decided and won't regret? Is this the best thing you feel right now to do?
If your hearts say yes, then do it! No more "but"s.. If you fail, do plan B. still fail, do plan C. And after all plans you think its failed, it still not the end of the story of your life, or your job, or your love. And always keep this in your head, that we have to always open our mind, our heart.. Sometimes, often, good things can't be seen with our eyes. they play hide and seek with you. Don't give up!
Love, Care and Share
Khaerin
After in the down phase so long, I'm getting up back.. And I feel so easy, so free again.. Thanks G for helping me through all this phase..
So, how are you all Rinners? I really wish you in the good condition. And if you are not, I wish you can pass through all of your problems with a strong and great spirit to always look for the positive behind it all.
Sometimes, often, we don't realize what we've been through, what have made us so we all can be like what we are now... Every episode of our life, that's what exactly what made us to be like now..
Don't say "no matter what I've done, nobody care"!
Do you know how many creatures are staring at you right now? how many people care about you right now? It just somehow, not everybody can "do and act" facing your problem. They are not you. They can not be you. That's why, they only can do something which they think it might help you.. Some people pray for you, some other give you advises, some people shows their sympathy, some people really "do and act" according your situation to help you.
Anyway, you may not doubt that there's no one care. G care..
So my dear Rinners,
Let's make a new target again.. Make some plans again. Put all of your effort to get what you really want.. If you really want something, you will find a way to get it. And if you have big enough dream, reach it! Nothing or nobody will stop you. Reach your dream, Live your life! Don't be coward and be somebody else's.. You are You.
Proud of yourself, Be the Best you should be. And if you think you are in the right way, prove it. You don't have to show off, and you don't have to be arrogant. You just have to prove to yourself, follow your heart, your truly heart, which will remind you, over and over again. Are you really happy right now? Are you really want to do this? Have you decided and won't regret? Is this the best thing you feel right now to do?
If your hearts say yes, then do it! No more "but"s.. If you fail, do plan B. still fail, do plan C. And after all plans you think its failed, it still not the end of the story of your life, or your job, or your love. And always keep this in your head, that we have to always open our mind, our heart.. Sometimes, often, good things can't be seen with our eyes. they play hide and seek with you. Don't give up!
Love, Care and Share
Khaerin
Friday, 27 January 2012
IT'S BEEN MONTHS
Dear Rinners,
I missed you so much.. but lately I couldn't find something to say, anything good for you to read. So, everytime I try to write, it left blank again. I'm sorry...
Today, actually, I just put my fingers on the keyboard, and my mind just talks..
How are you lately, Rinners? Are you just fine? Or you are great..
So many things have happened, and I just don't know where to start. New Year, Chinese New Year, Vacation, everything.. I feel so happy but sad too.. I feel so exited but can't express it too.. and I feel so bored but still haven't moved too..
I miss my man out there.. I miss my child out there.. I miss you all guys..
I try to stand on my own two feet, but people like testing me. It's okay, I don't mind. I try to learn how to live my life the way I want it.. because it's been too long dictated by anyone. I admit that I'm still finding myself. It looks like a part of my self are hiding somewhere.. or haven't found yet.. You know, sometimes like loosing control, loosing ourselves somewhere out there.. and waiting for us to find it back.
I miss writing, reading, knitting, dancing.. I miss all that thing.. I think I forgot how to be me.. Living this life, sometimes made us to be another person.. too many cheating, too many masks that you put on your face.
Me? yes, because I'm afraid being rejected by people. I'm afraid because of me someone will die. I'm afraid because of me, a relationship will never be the same again. I'm afraid they will be angry.. I'm afraid can't fulfill what they want. Toooo many fears inside of me.. and what that makes me? I can't move forward. I stuck, often I move backward. What for? Are they really think about me? Yes, they think about me the way they want...
I love them.. all of them.. but I love myself more.. because I'm too selfish to think what I need to be happy.. So, it just about time to leave all this things behind.. it's been months of waiting to write down this feeling... to say "I love you..."
Have a great life out there as what you already have now.. or then.. I know you won't miss me.. C:
Good night, everybody..
I missed you so much.. but lately I couldn't find something to say, anything good for you to read. So, everytime I try to write, it left blank again. I'm sorry...
Today, actually, I just put my fingers on the keyboard, and my mind just talks..
How are you lately, Rinners? Are you just fine? Or you are great..
So many things have happened, and I just don't know where to start. New Year, Chinese New Year, Vacation, everything.. I feel so happy but sad too.. I feel so exited but can't express it too.. and I feel so bored but still haven't moved too..
I miss my man out there.. I miss my child out there.. I miss you all guys..
I try to stand on my own two feet, but people like testing me. It's okay, I don't mind. I try to learn how to live my life the way I want it.. because it's been too long dictated by anyone. I admit that I'm still finding myself. It looks like a part of my self are hiding somewhere.. or haven't found yet.. You know, sometimes like loosing control, loosing ourselves somewhere out there.. and waiting for us to find it back.
I miss writing, reading, knitting, dancing.. I miss all that thing.. I think I forgot how to be me.. Living this life, sometimes made us to be another person.. too many cheating, too many masks that you put on your face.
Me? yes, because I'm afraid being rejected by people. I'm afraid because of me someone will die. I'm afraid because of me, a relationship will never be the same again. I'm afraid they will be angry.. I'm afraid can't fulfill what they want. Toooo many fears inside of me.. and what that makes me? I can't move forward. I stuck, often I move backward. What for? Are they really think about me? Yes, they think about me the way they want...
I love them.. all of them.. but I love myself more.. because I'm too selfish to think what I need to be happy.. So, it just about time to leave all this things behind.. it's been months of waiting to write down this feeling... to say "I love you..."
Have a great life out there as what you already have now.. or then.. I know you won't miss me.. C:
Good night, everybody..
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